Define "LOYAL", Define "REAL"

First, I want to start off by saying that I am so tired of hearing people say "You aint real" or "You aint Loyal" or "You aint bout that life". This statement is so absurd to me. People walk around trying to define realness to everyone around them and to be honest it just seems superficial to me. We all have a little shady in us. If you say that you don't, then you are lying to yourself and everyone else around you. The only person we should be real with is "ourselves and "GOD". There is too much emphasis on what people arent doing for you, instead of what you arent doing for yourselves. We don't have to keep trying to prove ourselves to PEOPLE. We shouldnt be that shallow. I have learned that people define you based on their own perception of you. Don't allow people to put you in a box and step all over your character....Thats so NOT cool!!!!